Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Mom, the best.


When i was rushing up to my office from the railway station, i saw something that leads me to a deep thought... i saw a girl with her dad and another with her mom rushing to their own destination... Later i got an idea that they are not related and they had nearly 5ft or more between them... but the girls are more or less of same age, should be around 8 yrs old...
I saw the girl with her dad holding him and running to speed...
and with the other girl, her mom was holding the girl's hand and adjusting herself to her daughter's speed...
here, again ... it is proved that Mom is always more caring than Dad. This doesn't mean Dads are not caring but Moms are always "more" caring.
I remember a short story from a magazine, i don't remember the author or year, should be before 5yrs. I would like to give a hint of that story here...
A boy in his primary school got his marks for the monthly exams and he wants to get them signed only by his dad. He know his dad won't sign because his performance is below average but he don't have other chance and so he went to his dad with the marks sheet. Seeing the marks dad started shouting at him and he know his dad won't end up without beating him. When the dad was about to hit the boy mom rushed up and placed a tight slap in boy's face. Tears rolled down from the boy's face and he can't believe his mom beating him. Dad continued shouting and went out to meet someone after signing his marks sheet.
The boy still can't believe his mom's reaction. He came back to his room crying. His mom followed him to his room with juice and confessed that she slapped him for reason and if she didn't slapped him, his dad would have done that but more. And then he realized that he didn't feel the pain when his mom slapped him and also she did that to stop his dad from beating him.
Mom gave the juice saying, " relax, we shall talk about the marks later and you can join tuition for the subject u feel hard... come to the dining for lunch in half an hour..."

The aim of both mom and dad is same, they want their son to study well for better future... but their reactions are different... Mom's is caring love and Dad's is violent love... both ends up in love... but mom is one step forward... always...

4 comments:

Raji said...

Mom's love is always a step ahead...Tat's true :)

Raji U said...

Today found the true love my mom always had for me after a fight with her.. something so apt at the moment for me..

Anonymous said...

mmm
I do not widh to contradict or anything...
Moms are definitely great miracle! but I guess, it is little unfair towards Dads...
Many times, they are strict and do not show their affection through words or hugs many times.
But I do not agree to the fact that mom's love is greater than dad's.
Mom and dad have different priorities and times for expressing their care and love. If we know the immense care behind dad's shouting, we will feel sorry for grading his love any lesser than mom's.....

Anonymous said...

good observations...and true fact even...dads always want children to be in their way where as moms go in the way of their children...good one.

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